First Love Diaries: A Kiss On the Beach| Prologue Review

Hi! I hope everyone is enjoying their long weekend. I don't have any major plans; I'll be spending most of my time relaxing with Boba. I wanted to take a quick second and review Voltage's new game. You'll find a detailed review under the cut. Enjoy!
August 12, 2014

The prologue follows a girl on her first day of school. The MC reflects on how much more fun high school would be if she had a boyfriend. Your best friend has you "train" and asks if you would date various guys that you meet throughout the day. 

The Guys of First Love Diaries: A Kiss On the Beach
  • Nao: Shy and cute
  • Yuya: Friendly and popular
  • Mahiro: Flirty
  • Sota: Tough and silent
  • Mitsuru: Smart and a little stuck up
I hope that the teacher will be available. I know that he is in the Japanese version, so maybe Voltage will hook us up.

Too Passive For My Own Good

I am the first to admit that it takes A LOT to get me mad. I don't hold grudges and usually let stuff go pretty quickly. I have realized that I'm too passive with acquaintances. I really need to start telling these people how I feel more. I did have a few toxic friends in the past that made me feel really bad and treated me like crap and I would always be understanding because they were going through a rough time. This response just made them act even worse which I don't get. Like how do you not have the self awareness to know that you are being unnecessarily mean to another person for no reason.

All the super close people in my life give me no problems at all, maybe minor annoyances here and there, but that's normal. There has been no major disrespectful moments or complete disregard for my feelings. A lot of people meet me and understand that I'm really nice and would do anything for anyone, but say they wouldn't want to be on my bad side. They would even comment they knew it would take a lot to get there, and I would agree with them.

I honestly think all of this pushing down comes from a period of my life when I was younger when my family fought a lot. I was always the peacekeeper and super understanding, so everyone had their feelings voiced but me. While it's great that I don't lash out at other people, I can't continue to be so passive with casual friends and acquaintances when they are being really inappropriate and just plain downright nasty towards me.

It's important to be the bigger person, but I'm realizing that I can be way too chill. I'm now understanding that you need to have boundaries in regards to being a bigger person. So instead of pushing down my feelings and spending a night looking like Drake and listening to The Worst by Jhene Aiko and borderline crying while eating a sandwich, Ima talk to the person and politely call them out. No need to yell because that's not my style, but they need to know how I feel. I am no longer willing to let acquaintances or casual friends act any kind of way like they have no home training and spend a day nursing my wounds when what they did was royally uncool. Yay for personal growth! Please don't let anyone do that to you. Your feelings matter :)

♥︎Baby the Stars Shine Bright and Tokyo Rebel Store Opening♥︎

Hey! I hope everyone has been well. Work has still been crazy, but it's starting to calm down. I've been attending some events and visiting new places in the city, and I'm excited to share with you! Last month my boo Tiffany and I got to go to the opening of the Baby the Stars Shines Bright and Tokyo Rebel store together. 

I met Tif at Grand Central and she looked adorable! Her coord was really cute and well put together. Her accessories were super cute!
Her coord

I've decided that I really want to plan a coord, but since I don't know what style I want to do yet or haven't seen a dress that's out that has caught my attention, I would just rock a J fashion street style outfit. 
My outfit

A cute girl of color's mother asked if Tiffany would take a picture with her daughter because the girl liked her outfit. It was the cutest thing ever^^

Next, we proceeded to head down to Astor Place. I noticed the whole time that we were together most people were chill about her and would look at go about their day. There were a few people that were being a little extra about it -_- I'll get into that a little later. 
Frilly lady on the train^^

We decided it was probably smart to eat before we went to the opening. The opening was at 1 pm; I heard the day before that there was a special tea party earlier for people that bought tickets. We figured it would be smarter to eat before we headed to the store. We passed by Ippudo NY and decided to give it a try. Tif had eaten there before, but I hadn't had the chance and always wanted to try it. It's usually super packed at night, so I always end up eating somewhere else. We decided to try the Hirata buns, and they were delish! They were also super filling.
We walked to the store from there and got there right at 1. On the walk over a lady called to Tiffany to ask if she could take our pictures. She remarked that Tiffany looked like a strawberry parfait that came down from heaven. I had to snap a shot of its beauty. I love that purple and black coord in the window ^_^
Unfortunately, the line was down to the end of the block. We ended up waiting in line for four hours. When we left the line wrapped around the block and was longer than we we arrived. The other downside was that there didn't seem to be a time limit, so people were in the store for awhile. Also people were cutting in line. It wouldn't have been a big deal if it was a few people, but it would be like a group of ten girls joining another big group. I  had new flats on like a dummy and the back of my feet were killing me.

The upside was that we made friends with the girls in line in front of us :) They were wearing some awesome coords. Also, there were a lot of POC lolitas and that made me super happy. 
Kitty in her beautiful coord. We exchanged tumblrs and now follow each other :)

Another lovely Lolita

Us waiting in line

Tiffany's macaroon necklace^^

We finally got in around 4. I bought two magazines a KERA magazine and the Gothic Lolita Bible. I could not wait in line with my feet killing me and not get anything lol Tiffany bought a super cute dress.
Tokyo Rebel section

Ugh, I wanted this dress soooo bad! One day my friend you shall be mine >_<

I do have a mini rant to go on about people's reaction to Tiffany and the other lolitas in line in general. Tiffany told me that when she got on the train, she heard someone taking her picture. Also a girl gave her the rudest look ever for no reason. Honestly, people trick you into thinking that because NYC is a fashion capital people don't act weird about different styles. Sadly, that's not the case. There were people just taking pictures of the girls in line. Okay that's a little awkward, but some people got even more disrespectful by taking pictures of girls without their consent. One of the girls we made friends with said someone came up behind their friend and was trying to take a picture of her back. Like wtf?! How about you ask her if you can take her picture?! I saw another older gentleman that was trying to take a picture of a girl without her permission. She told him to stop and his comment was, "Why? You're dressed like that." She corrected him that she dressed for herself and told him to leave her alone. He then tried to stand across the street and take her picture. Tiffany did receive mostly positive remarks, but there were some guys when we left that were being super rude. He was just loudly talk shit about her right behind her back as we were trying to get a taxi. He didn't realize I was with her probably because I was dressed differently. I literally stared them down, and his friend noticed and apologized. Like why do you feel the need to talk about someone because of what they're wearing. Nothing is ever that serious. It doesn't matter what you think about it because it's what makes them happy. End of rant.

I would love to visit the store again when it isn't so crowded. We were pretty tired and just wanted to go home and crash afterwards. I had a lot of fun with her and can't wait to have more adventures with her! If you want to check her out you can follow her at @Ferenteeny on Twitter. Thanks for reading!